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7 Alternative Valentine’s Date Ideas
Ah, February 14th! The one day of the year that is loved and hated in equal measure, welcomed with open arms by happy couples everywhere but equally maligned by those who don’t have that special someone in their life with whom to share it. Of course, we don’t believe that you should show each other how much you care on one day and one day alone but it’s still quite lovely to do something extra-special on February 14th – so here are some alternative ideas that could help you decide what to do this year.

6 Vegan Date Night Recipe Ideas
As well as being Dry January, the first month of the year is also Veganuary, where people all over the world try ditching the meat and dairy for four weeks to see how they fare when following a vegan diet.
Last year, more than half a million people were inspired by the annual campaign to give it a go, discovering the many and varied delights of vegan food and produce.

Sober Dating: 6 Top Tips
With Dry January now upon us, no doubt many of you out there are wondering just how on earth you’re going to pluck up the courage to go on all those wonderful first dates without a bit of Dutch courage backing you up. Just in case you are a little nervous about the whole sober dating thing, however, we’ve put together a few little hints and tips to help you get to grips with it

7 New Year’s Resolutions For A Happy, Healthy You!
keeping resolutions can be pretty tricky business so choosing the right ones is key – as is being realistic about what can be achieved in just 12 months! The last two years have certainly been tough, so we’re looking forward to seeing how much positivity 2022 can bring… and here are some ideas that could help you drive health and happiness your way!

Hard-Ball Dating: What’s It All About?
With a brand-new year on the horizon, there’s no better time than right now to start thinking about what kind of resolutions you want to make for the coming 12 months… and where matters of the heart are concerned, you might want to start doing a bit of research into hard-ball dating, a concept that looks set to make some serious waves in 2022 and beyond.

Victorian Matrimonial Ads: Where Dating Apps All Began!
Apps are by far the most common way for people to meet these days, but therein lies the problem: it makes love disposable. Easy come, easy go. While you might well think that dating apps are a modern invention, their origins can actually be traced all the way back to Victorian times, when negotiated marriages arranged by parents started to fall seriously out of favour.

Forget Red Flags! Here Are Green Flags You Want To See!
As important as it is to be able to identify the warning signs and know what to do if any do pop up, it’s just as important to be familiar with the signs you do want to see so you can fully embrace them when they appear, helping you to find the next big love of your life. Here are some of the greenest ones to watch out for!

Dating Slang Uncovered: Terms You Need To Know!
The dating world is a very unique one, with its own language and etiquette but fear not, the team here at Select Personal Introductions are here to help! We thought we’d compile a comprehensive guide of all the dating terms you need to know about in your quest for love. Have we missed any out? Drop us a line to let us know!

Do You Know What Your Love Language Is?
There are actually five different love languages in total, a concept first developed by author and marriage counsellor Dr Gary Chapman. The love doctor, if you will! But what are these love languages and where do you fit in? Here’s the lowdown on love, as explained by Dr Gary. Which one of these do you think you are? There’s a quiz you can take to find out, of course!

Dating With Anxiety: How To Cope
If you’re an anxious person, the thought of putting yourself out there and making yourself vulnerable in the name of love can make it particularly hard. To help you dip your toe in the dating waters, here are a couple of our top tips for dealing with anxiety while on the quest for love. Before you know it, you’ll be a dating pro!

How To Tell You’re Falling In Love
The signs of love can often be incredibly subtle and this can mean that you give up on something too soon… there is such a thing as a slow burner, remember!
To help you work out if what you’re feeling is love or if you’re just in like (everyone’s worst nightmare!), here are some of the more common signs that you’re about to go head over heels. How many of these can you check off right now?

Meeting The Parents? Here Are Our Top Tips For Success!
No matter how old you are, it always feels a little intimidating to be introduced to the mum and dad. And, of course, it means that you’re taking the relationship to the next level, which can leave you feeling even more vulnerable and open to heartbreak… which is all entirely normal to feel, just so you know!
Here are some top tips to keep those nerves under control

11 Unusual But Awesome First Date Ideas
If you’re here, then you’re likely taking control of your dating life, and not wanting to waste your time on tepid conversation and awkward company, or ‘hardballing’, as it has been called. So why not try something completely different next time you’re planning a date? We have a look at some unusual but awesome first date ideas!

How To Bring A Long Distance Relationship Closer
It is important to note that there are millions of successful long-distance relationships and the reasons why these succeed are as varied and unique as the people who get together.
However, if you are in a long-distance relationship, whether it started as one or became one as a result of circumstance, here are some tips to help bring that relationship closer.

The Importance Of Self-Care In Relationships
We are all used to the concept of self-care, but what about when you are in a relationship? In the first few exciting months as you draw close to another person, it can all be about ‘we’ and ‘us’, but it is actually healthy to step back and focus on yourself too. Here is a little insight into the importance of self-care in relationships.